Parent-Led • Child Tested • SENCo Approved
Parent-Led • Child Tested • SENCo Approved
Helping children understand separation in a way that feels familiar, almost like a simple board game.
Pieces move to show where everyone is.
The child is in control.
They move the figures themselves, placing their loved ones where they are going. This gives the child a sense of involvement in the transition, they aren't just being left, they are actively participating in the goodbye.
By moving the Tot they are giving their blessing for that person to go, reducing anxiety and resistance around separation.
"They begin to look forward to separation, they get to move the Tots"
When the box closes, everyone is home.


They're in charge!

"It has its own table by the front door, when everyone returns, the box closes."
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"She doesn't mind me leaving the house now, because she gets to place my tot and close the box when I come home"
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“My child now asks ‘Where’s my tot going?’ instead of crying at the door.”
Mum of Faye - (age 4)
Tap n' Flap Sensory Ltd
Designed by parents of neurodivergent children • Parent-Led • SENCo Approved
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Goodbyes they can see. Returns they can trust.