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Goodbyes they can see. returns they can trust

A visual reassurance tool allowing children to see where you are, when you're not with them.

Helping children understand separation in a way that feels familiar, almost like a simple board game. 

Pieces move to show where everyone is. 


The child is in control. 

They move the figures themselves, placing their loved ones where they are going. This gives the child a sense of involvement in the transition, they aren't just being left, they are actively participating in the goodbye. 

By moving the Tot they are giving their blessing for that person to go, reducing anxiety and resistance around separation.


"They begin to look forward to separation, they get to move the Tots"


When the box closes, everyone is home.

How The Tots Box Works
psychologically brilliant

Children aren't passive in the separation

They're in charge!

Calm Goodbyes Start Here

"It has its own table by the front door, when everyone returns, the box closes."

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"She doesn't mind me leaving the house now, because she gets to place my tot and close the box when I come home"

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“My child now asks ‘Where’s my tot going?’ instead of crying at the door.”

If someone is exhausted, struggling with school drop-off, feeling guilty leaving, dealing with clinginess They will feel...“This gets it. This understands.”


Mum of Faye - (age 4)

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